Live. Love. Dream. List


“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”

– C.S. Lewis

Have you created lists of things that you want to accomplish in your life? Are there things you want to do, places you want to see, people you want to meet/ visit? What are some of the dreams, desires and goals that you have for your life?

In the years since first watching “A Walk to Remember” and “The Bucketlist” I have made my own various lists of things that I would like to do in my life. After losing Greg I reevaluated where my priorities are and what I was investing my time in pursuing. My “LIVE. LOVE. DREAM. LIST” incorporates both old dreams and new dreams. It incorporates my life, goals and dreams from “before” in addition to my life now and the goals and dreams that I aspire for the future.

For example, writing a memoir, having my art in an exhibit would not have been on my list “before”. Whereas, attending baseball games at each of the current baseball stadiums is a dream of mine from childhood.

As the years go by I re-evaluate my list and add some and take some off.

I found out that life is short, GOD IS IN CONTROL and I can be here one second and gone the next. I want to do as much positive things with my life in the time that I have left here. When I get to Heaven I want to be able to say that I lived, loved and gave with all that God gave me.

  • There is no right or wrong way to make a Bucketlist. After I made my list I researched online to get ideas from other lists and I modified what I already had to fit in with my own thoughts and personality. Some of the categories I use I have not seen the actual categorical term used in other Bucketlists. There are various formats that you can find easily online if you are looking for some structure when organizing your list.
  • You also can title your list in any way that you want. For me “Bucketlist” just seemed depressing, and was not reflective of the contents of my list! So I decided I thought about a creative title that reflected how I chose to live my life by living, loving and dreaming!


Brandi’s Live. Love. Dream. List

Helping Others, Contributions, Leaving a Legacy

– Write a memoir even if it never gets published *

– Publish a book

Publish an article in a book, Jan 2013

– Publish an article about my grandfather

– Serve Christ & Help others *

– Donate blood in Greg’s memory

– Plant a tree in Greg’s memory

– Plant a tree in my grandpa’s memory

– Volunteer at a Soup Kitchen during Thanksgiving or Christmas Day

– Make a donation to charity

– Start a foundation or non – profit

– Make a difference in at least one person’s life (per Bonnie) 🙂

– Pay It Forward

Advocate for other Unwedded Widows, 2010 – 2012

– See my father accept Christ into his heart

– See my sister graduate from high school, May 2013


Arts & Humanities

– Learn how to play the guitar

– Learn how to work in a darkroom

– Amateur photographer* (s. June 2013)

Have a piece of my artwork exhibited in a gallery, Jan 2013

Donate a piece of work to charity, Jan 2013

– Have a photograph of mine exhibited in an art gallery

– Have artwork published in a book

– Have my own art studio * April 2013

Become a working artist * (s. May 2013)

– Help with putting together an art show April – June 2013

– Own artwork by a well-known artist

– Visit an Art museum in every major city in the US

– Visit the Museum of Modern Art

Visit the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum in D.C.

– Visit the Rock N Roll Hall of Fame in Cleveland

– Visit the TCL Chinese Theatre in LA

– Visit all the Presidential Museums (Bush Senior, Clinton)

– Get a memorial tattoo in memory of Greg

– Go to a Jazz club in New Orleans

– See U2, Bruce Springsteen, Bon Jovi in concert

– Catch up/ finish reading all the books by my favorite authors *

– Own all my favorite baseball movies *



– Travel to Greece

– Travel to the Holy Land

– Travel to Ireland

– Travel to Australia

– Visit Auschwitz

– Backpack through Europe

Move to and live in a state that I have wanted to

– Live on the beach

– Live in San Diego

– Live in Boston

– Go on a road trip to Arkansas and visit Greg’s home town

Go on a road trip to some where I haven’t been that I would like to visit

– Visit Union Square

– Visit Nashville

– Visit LA


Adventures/Sports/ Healthy Living/ Activities

– Attend a baseball game in every baseball stadium in the US

Baltimore Orioles – Oriole Park

Boston Red Sox – Fenway Park

New York Yankees – Yankee Stadium

Tampa Bay Rays – Tropicana Field

Toronto Blue Jays – Rogers Center

Chicago White Sox – US Cellular Field

Cleveland Indians – Progressive Field

Detroit Tigers – Comerica Park

Kansas City – Kauffman Stadium

Minnesota Twins – Target Field

Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim – Angel Stadium

Oakland Athletics – stadium

Seattle Mariners – safeco field

Texas Rangers – Rangers Ballpark in Arlington

Texas Rangers – Old Ballpark

Atlanta Braves – Turner Field

Miami Marlins – Marlins Park

New York Mets – Citi field

Philadelphia Phillies – Citizens Bank Park

Washington Nationals – Nationals Park

Chicago Cubs – Wrigley Field

Cincinnati Reds – Great American Ballpark

Houston Astros-Minute Maid Park

Houston Astros – Astrodome

Milwaukee Brewers – Miller Park

Pittsburg Pirates – PNC Park

St. Louis Cardinals – Busch Stadium

Arizona Diamondbacks – Chase Field

Colorado Rockies – Coors field

Los Angeles Dodgers – Dodger Stadium

San Francisco Giants – AT & T Park

San Diego Padres – Petco Park

– Attend a game of The World Series

– Attend an All Star Game

– Play indoor soccer again for at least 1 season May – July 2013

– Practice Yoga and be able to do the difficult asanas *

– Become a Yoga Instructor

– Participate in a 5k walk Jan 2012/ Jan 2013 

– Learn how to surf

– Learn how to snowboard

– Indoor rock climbing

Parasailing, April 2012



– Graduate with Master’s Degree *

– Become a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist *

– Become a Licensed Art Therapist *

– Obtain Certification in ABA Therapy

– Continuing Education – Lifelong learner

– Learn Sign Language

– Learn Spanish


Cooking, Healthy Diet, Organic

– Incorporate 5 super-foods into my diet for 3 months

– Keep a vegetable garden

– Cook through the Julia Childs cookbook – “Mastering The Art of French Cooking”

– Cook an entire Thanksgiving meal, from scratch



– Swim with Dolphins

– Go whale-watching

– Create and maintain my own garden

– A sun rise in the east

– A sun set in the west

– Be in two places at once

– If new love is found — embrace it!

– Own my own home


Completed, Month/Year Completed

* In Progress


I reserve the right to edit, modify, and add to this list over the course of my lifetime and as priorities in my life change.

All Material Copyright @ Brandi


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